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August 21, 2020

Top Tips for Oral Sex, Riding & Sliding Into DMs With Grace

Episode 175

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Samia Burton, founder of Sexual Essentials, joins us to share her unique experience and insights as an unconventional sex educator. We discuss:
  • Deep throat yoga-yawning
  • Oral sex techniques
  • Building up stamina
  • How to body-roll like a pro
  • Hands-on sex ed for adults
  • Using fruit snacks to spice things up
  • The dos and don’ts of DMing strangers: language, approach, tone and your elevator pitch
  • Jump rope, donkey kicks & other exercises for better sex

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Let’s discuss something, how SOME of y’all treat us via DM is why we scowl in public & walk across the street when we see a group of men. SOME of y’all don’t make us feel safe. ⁣ ⁣ At some point it has to get TIRED trying to hit on every woman that you see⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ In the grocery store with a mask & folks legit just come up & are trying to get with you ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Yes I know what you’re going to say ‘but how do you think folks get together ..but a lot of relationships start like that’⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ And you are ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! But what’s present in those SUCCESSFUL outcomes is some indication that the person was interested and IF there was no indication the woman was able to let her guard down because she was approached with proper communication & no sexual undertones from a stranger! ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Idk about every woman but personally when I see someone that strikes my eye for whatever reason there is a eye catch that stays just a little too long and right there in that split second a guy knows aye she saw me too…but she walks to pump her gas she watching over her shoulder staying safe and you just coming to the pump in her personal space not even offering to pump the gas (as you see I did not say PAY) and saying Hey Ma you got a man with absolutely no thought outside of just laying eyes on her … the shit is TIRED and wayyyy too many men do it. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Don’t be that guy that hits on every woman he SEES and if you are make it original & stop mentioning sex ANYTHING in a fucking DM. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Women are being attacked, stalked, murdered every fucking day Do SOMETHING to make her feel safe not make her feel like this is a fucking creep. Because i assure you asking her for sex is not the way. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ And for the dumbass that’s going to say ‘well you’re a sex page he probably thought that was ok’ JUST STOP. If I sold sex I would SAY SO. But I don’t and me discussing sex does not give any person a RIGHT to speak to me any type of way. ⁣⁣ ⁣⁣ Telling women that you DONT KNOW that you would fuck the shit out of them is NOT OKAY. Because clearly you don’t know her all we think is RAPE !!! do not be that guy. I would hate to have to put some hot shit in somebody son because of this simple shit.

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