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April 24, 2013

A Technique She’ll Love!

A technique she'll love

The following is an excerpt from Dr. Jess O’Reilly’s best-seller, Hot Sex Tips, Tricks and Licks, published by Quiver Books.

Are you dying to get inside of her and feel her warm folds surround your fingers? Of course you are! Try the Cross My Fingers technique to change things up and explore new ways to satisfy her with your bare hands.

Ask her to get down on her hands and knees in the Doggie position so that you get a great view from behind.


  • Begin by rubbing her bum and telling her how perfectly round, juicy and tasty it looks from behind. Mmm!
  • Cross your index and middle fingers of your dominant hand and apply some lube.
  • Insert your crossed fingers into her vagina with your palm facing down.
  • Once you’ve inserted all the way up to your second or third finger, rotate your hand clockwise until your palm is facing up and then pull out.
  • Start slowly and increase the speed as she gets worked up and keep telling her how much you love the view!

Variations and Advanced Techniques

  • As you rotate your crossed fingers, perform a scooping motion to massage the upper, lower and sides of the vaginal walls
  • To change up the sensations, alternate your hand position to start with your palm facing upward and rotate counterclockwise as you pull out.
  • Got a spare hand? Use it to play as you please. Stroke your own penis, reach around and fondle her breasts or lick your fingers and play with the sensitive skin surrounding her bum hole.