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2009

Mar

Tips & Techniques

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Cock Rings 101

Cock Rings can be lots of fun for both men and women and despite their namesake, you don’t need to have penis to use them. Yay! Cock rings are designed to be worn around the base of the penis and/or behind ...

2009

Mar

Tips & Techniques

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It’s All In Your Head

This post is intended for those over the age of 18. If you are not yet 18, please visit www.spiderbytes.ca for reliable information on human sexuality. A mind is a terrible thing to waste – especially when it comes to sex. The brain is not usually what ...

2009

Mar

Tips & Techniques

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Sexploration

This post is intended for those over the age of 18. If you are not over the age of 18, please access sexualityandu.com ...

2009

Feb

Tips & Techniques

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It’s A Great Time For Sex

Timing is key to exciting sex. Consider having sex… Before dinner: the traditional date night involves some food, wine, movies and/or dancing. While I love all of the above and each of these date components can put you in a sexy mood, they can also tire you out. So why not try sex before the date begins? You’ll have more energy earlier in ...

2009

Feb

Tips & Techniques

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Going Down and Eating Out

The following post is intended for those over the age of 18. If you are not yet 18, please access www.sexualityandu.com for accurate sex information. As promised, I describe another oral sex term below: The Aficionado. This one is for all the men and women who love women, enjoy pleasing us and keeping us coming back for more. Once again, I can ...

2009

Feb

Tips & Techniques

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Sneak Peek into my Sex Workshops

This post contains sexually explicit content and is intended for those over the age of 18. If you are under 18 and would like reliable information on sexuality, please see www.sexualityandu.com. Listing a bunch of fun oral sex moves in yesterday's post elicited some requests for detailed explanations. I describe The Butterfly below and promise to add a few more later in the week. To learn more, please join me ...

2009

Feb

Tips & Techniques

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Sexy, No/Low-Cost Valentine’s Gifts

I know that it’s a “Hallmark” holiday and highly commercialized, but any excuse for real love and fun sex sounds good to me. So here are a few ideas for sexy gifts ...

2009

Feb

Tips & Techniques

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Sex — How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.

Sex — How do I love thee? Let me count the ways. Here are just a few of the reasons sex is so important to me: It’s fun and pleasurable. It can strengthen the body’s immune system. We organize many of our relationships around sex. Sex can ...

2009

Jan

Q & A

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What is a Sexologist?

I’m a sexologist. I study sex: what people do and how they feel about it. It’s a tough job, but someone has got to do it. At cocktail parties people are intrigued by my profession and I’m flooded with questions: How did I get into sexology? I started as a sexual health peer counsellor in undergrad and realized how much we all have to learn ...

2008

Dec

Sex News

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Let’s talk about sex.

This is our space to talk about sex and all of its exciting pleasures. Sex is the life force and an integral part of healthy living and development. This blog will discuss issues of sexuality pertaining to relationships, health, pleasure, technique, politics and culture. As a sex researcher I’m constantly learning about the infinite ways in which sex enriches our lives and I ...

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