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Sex & Relationship Expert. Host of PlayboyTV's Swing. Author. Public Speaker.
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06
2012
Jun

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In-the-flesh affairs are easy to identify. From making out in a cab to sneaking away for some afternoon delight, unless you’re Bill Clinton, there is little ambiguity when physical contact ...
23
2012
May

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The following an excerpt from Dr. Jess' article published by iVillage Canada: "Cute, sweet and perfect on paper. Why aren't we clicking?"   If you’ve ever fallen head over heels for the Mr. Wrong (and who hasn’t?), you know that the Read More
17
2012
May

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Men and women across the globe spend their lives searching for love in hopes of companionship, excitement, family, happily-ever-after, sex, security and even status. But now science suggests that ...
10
2012
May

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Feeling itchy and scratchy? Does it burn when you pee? Are you sexually active? If you follow my work, you’ll know that I don’t use scare tactics in my practice and I celebrate sex for all its glorious pleasure potential. However, partnered sex of all varieties and even safer sex with condoms carries some risk of sexually transmitted infection (STI), so taking your health into your own hands is of ...
03
2012
May

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Orgasms can be such a beautiful and splendid thing but. it’s getting to that level of pleasure and connection that can be tough. Here are some of the main detractors from women being able to reach orgasm from sexual stimulation.   1. Performance Pressure is one of the biggest detractors from sexual pleasure. While men may feel pressure to last longer and be harder, women also feel pressure to “perform” in ...
28
2012
Apr

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Talking about sex isn’t easy, but it is well worth it to improve intimacy, develop connection and heighten pleasure. Here are 3 steps to talking about sex with success:   Step 1: Be positive and begin with the easier conversations   Start by talking about what is already working and, offer compliments on those successes. This part of the ongoing sex talk may suffice for the very first discussion. You don’t have to move ...
19
2012
Apr

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Let’s face it, our bodies don’t always cooperate with us. For men whose erections disappear at an inopportune time the ...
13
2012
Apr

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Ever wonder what it would be like to dabble outside of your relationship? SWING is making those fantasises come true! Join me as I give real couples the oppurtunity to live out theire erotic curiosities. Every week, I'll be bringing new guests PlayboyTV's Swing House ...
12
2012
Apr

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Canada, you’re getting saucy! According to the 2012 Canadian Living Sex Survey, 36 per cent of respondents had sent a sexy photo or video to a partner – up from 30 per cent last year.   But ...
10
2012
Apr

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Love Trap is a playful half-hour series that helps love struck people with a serious crush actually do something about it. With the help of our host, Evan Starkman, a creative plan is devised in each episode to give one secret admirer the chance to trap their crush in order to express their true feelings. The show will go to all kinds ...

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